- Posted by Claire Neylan
- On December 14, 2015
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Hi ladies, and welcome to The Relationship Works – a place where you can understand everything you need to know about how to get into and stay in a relationship that works.
At this time of year, being single can take away some of your Christmas sparkle. Perhaps you’re single and have been for a while now. It can be a sore subject, especially when you’re friends are loved-up or you catch a glimpse of a couple embracing on the tube. You might think to yourself, “That could be me. How great would that be’, ‘I would have a boyfriend who really cares about me’. Of course, you take great joy in these thoughts. Suddenly as the tube pulls into the next station, you’re jolted back into reality.
You think, it would be great to be in a relationship that works, but then you are reminded of all your previous relationships and how they didn’t work. This crushing reality comes as a real blow to any hope that your next relationship will be fantastic and just flow. In your mind, either relationships work or they don’t. There is no in between. But what if there is a grey area when you don’t know how things will work out?
How do you figure out men and relationships?
What you may not know is that the woman sitting there on the tube has a loving relationship because she can be in this grey area of not knowing, which is uncomfortable, and sticks with it until it starts to feel comfortable. She also, at some point in her life, did not really understand how relationships work. Most women will let this not-knowing overwhelm them and quickly seek some distraction so they don’t have to think about it.
Here are some tips to help you on the way to the relationship you want.
1. Understanding how relationships work is not a given and you are not born with this knowledge. In fact most of you are conditioned to get it wrong!
2. Meeting a man and falling in love doesn’t just ‘happen’.
3. A woman is in a particular state of mind and feels a certain way about herself when it does happen.
To get into this zone, where your chances of meeting a suitable guy are very high, you will need to do 3 things:
(a) get the specialized knowledge or ‘blueprint’ of how relationships work
(b) do the work so that this knowledge becomes second nature to your mind and body
(c) understand the male brain, its tricks, power and limitations.
It’s the women who are prepared to do this work who are most likely to meet a man with whom the relationship can work. Are you this woman?
Give yourself the best Christmas present ever
If you want to be in a relationship that works, the first step is committing yourself to gaining the right knowledge.
I can help you develop into a confident woman who can understand exactly what it takes to have a great relationship – and the tricks that men get up.
Join me as I take you through a 2 day fun and interactive workshop called ‘Relationships & Reality – Prince Charming In the Real World‘ and get you exactly to where you need to be.
Make this Christmas the one where your wishes come true!
Love and happiness to you all!
Relationship Coach and Creator of The Relationship Works